Baby In the Tummy

Recently few friends of mine had been asking me a question – when do I want to get another child since Bb-G is 2 years old now?
Even my FIL asked me this question, and he said one child is not enough…. Hinting me to get pregnant soon.
And yesterday I managed to talk to my ex-colleague over the phone, I called her to order spiral yam mooncake, ended up she also asked me the same question…. Hmmmm….

But at this stage of 2-year-old, Bb-G fully needs attention, not only from me, but from her father too. But most of the time Papa-M works late and back home late. She will demand me to play with her eventhough I am quite reluctant and want to laze on the couch watching TV show. Anyway, I still give in to her - playing toys , sing, dance and read her books are all my activities nowadays when I am back from work.

Past week when sister-in-law’s baby stayed at my place, Bb-G showed her jealousy over the young baby. Some incidents happened:
1) When I carried the baby, BB-G couldn’t tolerate, she demanded me to carry her too, pulling the baby away from my arms. I hardly got the chance to fully carry the baby because my little missy will protest!

2) FIL was on the bed with both Bb-G and the baby. I dono what they were doing, but suddenly Bb-G threw some princess tantrum, she used her leg to kick away the baby’s head.

3) Uncle TH (Papa-M’s brother) came over my house, he was carrying the baby, and at the same time playing with Bb-G who was standing in front of him. Suddenly out of excitement (or dono wat happen), Bb-G scratched the baby’s face, and this made the baby stunned and traumatized, and he cried out of his lungs!

4) I took the baby to my room, so that I could take photo of Bb-G and the baby sitting together. Since BB-G can sit properly, of course our attention focused on the baby who need more support. I merely took 3 photos, and suddenly Bb-G scratched the baby’s face HARDLY, showing her dissatisfaction face ! The baby cried again in pain. Poor baby….. When I scolded and beat Bb-G’s hand, she just pretended nothing happen and walked away without even said sorry

So yesterday night, I sembang with Bb-G
Me: Eh, mummy’s tummy got baby ar, ok? (I open my shirt abit and show my belly, asking her to touch my tummy too)
BB-G: (Look at me at one kind, but still touching my tummy)….
Me: Eh see, inside got baby ar…
Bb-G: Got bb huh…? (face was frowning)
Me: Yalor, got bb ar, so mummy hug hug baby ok ..?
Bb-G : NOooo! Cannot….. (then her face wanted to cry d)
Me: Can lar, I hug hug baby ok, when baby come out from tummy, I hug hug baby ok?
Bb-G: NOOOOOOO…..Mummy hug hug me (and her eyes nearly got tears and she hugged me tight on my neck, refusing to let go)

Hohoho..... I wonder if I really have another baby, will the baby kena tortured by Bb-G??
Anyway, having another child is not the plan for the moment …..